When: Dates are now TBD. If you’re interested in attending- email: Mo@iloveitwhen.org to express interest.
Where: Everett, WA at Kindred Healing Space.
Early Bird Ticket Price: $1,555 *Lodging and food not included
(payment plan option at checkout)
Who:
this retreat is for men (this includes anyone who identifies as a man)
Space is limited to first 12 attendees to sign up.

Spots are limited- don’t miss this opportunity
to be a part of an amazing and transformative experience!

Mens Retreat
Info Session

Our goal and intention for this retreat: give you a safe and welcoming environment to explore, learn, be curious and FEEL BETTER! Watch this video to learn more about what this retreat entails and why you should join us!

ACCESS GRANTED

When was the last time you gave yourself permission to feel?
To be vulnerable, open and raw?
In the US, men have been conditioned to believe they should behave, think and act a certain way. We are here to change that. Conditioning has led us to believe that men have to be hard, tough, always strong, never emote anything or express a vulnerability, never depend on anyone, never ask for help, deal with any issue internally and never have a need for healing, relief, support, connection, sharing or softness.

At the Access Granted Retreat we will provide a safe, open and adventurous container for men to explore and find new levels of peace and acceptance. You will hear from Teachers, Leaders and Healers who have chosen to walk a different path- and are here to help you walk a path of your own. At this retreat you’ll hear stories and engage in interactive workshops where you’ll learn techniques to help you identify and release trapped emotions and/or energy in your body. You’ll have opportunity to share, ask questions, and bring your curiosity with zero shame and judgement.

Your ACCESS is GRANTED.
Step in and join us.

Meet Your Facilitators

A woman with curly blonde hair and blue eyes, smiling, wearing a red dress with puffed sleeves, standing against a plain light gray background.
Tom Harrison- CEO of Planet Mynd Play Lab out of Everett, WA.

Learn more about Mo & Tom

ACCESS GRANTED

A note from Mo:
We have been talking about creating a retreat for men for a few years now. I’ve been creating and hosting retreats since 2017 and the majority of my attendees have been female and/or identify as female. That was not my original intention, to serve primarily women, but I think it naturally took place because that is my primary perspective (well, one of them) in this world.
I also grew up with 3 brothers and have felt the tug to share what I’m learning more intentionally with men. I see a gap in access to healing and I’d like to help provide a bridge. I have met a lot of men in my journey of 44 years thus far on this earth- and have seen a pattern in men feeling a lack of safety to express and share emotions in a healthy manner. Between pressure from society, families, friends and however you were raised to think, believe and act- it takes intention and time to unwind that conditioning and start to live from your true self. I have had the privilege of experiencing more and more peace from the work I’ve done for myself- and I want to help YOU access this same peace.

I am SO excited and thrilled to be co-leading this with my partner, Tom Harrison. In the 5 years that we’ve now known each other- it’s been like creating a version of our own personal video game when it comes to our approach and perspective with healing and growth. We have found a way to provide each other with a safe container, a place where we can share without fear of retribution or harm, and it’s time for us to share what we’re learning with more people.
This retreat will be a combination of what I usually provide my attendees and what Tom sees and understands is a need from the male perspective. It will be an adventure.
A healing experience.
An opportunity to claim your true self and relax into that space.
You will meet new friends, forge new habits and leave with new tools that you can utilize DAILY.
Take the leap and experience something new!
I can’t WAIT to meet you.

A note from Tom:
It is time for me to finally share one of my secrets. At the age of 3 months, I turned blue in my mother’s arms. Chronic asthma was supposed to confine me to a small, isolated, and restricted life, its only abundance being its supply of medication. Instead, with my parent’s help and by embracing the life of a competitive swimmer, I broke free of my body’s prison. In the process, I turned the years of restriction and solitude into a superpower– the ability to focus inward and connect with my own body.  Still, I have struggled as an adult, through career crises, surviving a near death-experience, finding purpose, and healing from the trauma of a difficult and sometimes abusive upbringing. I credit my use of this superpower and unlocking its amazing healing and feeling abilities, with the clarity, access to joy, and connection that I experience today.

I’m eager to make room for us all on the road. This road isn't walked, it’s built. It has no destination, but it has a lot of rest stops and scenic overlooks along the way. The road can never be traveled alone. The road’s name is happiness.

Many of my best decisions– starting a high school swim team without a coach or even a pool, becoming a radio DJ, starting my first novel, attending a writer’s retreat, seeking therapy, joining the yoga/tai chi center, seeking therapy again, and seeking therapy again– were because I was either fed up with the pain I was feeling or I was open to having MORE in my life.
If you regularly feel either of those feelings, then this men’s retreat is for you.

Agenda

  • Mo Smith and Tom Harrison at the Be You Retreat.

    Day 1

    9am-12pm: Opening w/Mo & Tom
    *see below for description
    12-1:30pm: Lunch
    2-4pm: Breathwork
    6:00pm: Dinner together

  • The Unplug From Fear Retreat group.

    Day 2

    9:00am: Connect & share
    9:30am-12pm: Speaker: TBD
    12-1:30pm: Lunch
    1:30pm: Connect & share
    2-5pm: Speaker: TBD
    6:00pm: Dinner together

  • A woman in a blue top and floral pants looking at her phone, standing in a room with white chairs, a gong, and a table in the background, with another woman laughing behind her.

    Day 3

    9:00am: Connect & share
    9:30am-12pm: Individual Healing Sessions
    w/Crystal, Kai and Matt
    12pm: Lunch
    1:30pm: Connect & share
    2:00pm: Final Session
    6:00pm: Dinner together

THE AGENDA:The agenda may shift a bit right before the retreat in regards to some of the details as we get closer to the date- but what won’t shift- is the original intention and your 2 main speakers: Mo Smith and Tom Harrison.

Please note: The retreat ticket does not include lodging/food. We do this intentionally to keep the ticket price low. I want to encourage folks who might be traveling from out of town to find other retreat attendees to rent a place with- and those who live locally could have the option to drive home each evening if they choose.

Meet Your Healers

Kai Bertrand- Hawaiian Shaman.
Crystal Novak- Psychic and Energy Worker out of Lynnwood, WA.
Matt Young- Mystic and Healer.

You’re going to walk away from this retreat with….

  • NEW TOOLS to help you tap into your inner knowing, ground, clear your energy and remove negative energy/lower frequencies- so that you can make decisions in your life with clarity and peace.

  • CLARITY on what you can do next in life to FEEL more peace and self love.

  • A RENEWED SENSE of hope and optimism.

  • AN ENERGETIC upgrade. (We’ll share more about what this means- but think: less things weighing you down or taking up your head space!)

  • NEW FRIENDS and connections!

  • Something MIRACULOUS and unexpected- I like to leave space for the unknown… you never know whats possible when you leave space and create with intention!

I love it when retreats.

FAQs

Unplug From Fear Retreat Attendee.

"The Unplug From Fear Retreat has had a profound impact on my life.
It hasn't been until the last few years that I've been able to focus attention on myself and take care of my needs.
I came to this retreat because I know it's time. I've been holding onto a lot of energy and pain that never belonged to me. 
I am DONE putting myself last. 
This retreat gave me the opportunity to let go of all that no longer serves me- and I gave myself the space to be me and let it go.
Between the speakers, fellow attendees and Mo- I was supported, loved and celebrated. 

One example I'd like to share is that I've had pain in my stomach for the last 5 years. Every morning and evening- I have had to use a warm compress to help ease the pain. During the retreat- I experienced a breathwork session where I was able to see and sense where I had stuck energy- and the practitioners helped me release it from my body! Starting that night- I had ZERO pain in my stomach. 
And that pain has been GONE ever since the retreat. If you're on the fence about whether or not to go to the next retreat- get off the fence and lean in.
This container is a SAFE place for you to heal and Unplug From Fear, just as I did!”

-Shelby Anderson
Snohomish, WA

The first step is saying YES to you.